My brother- and sister-in-law weren't very happy when Blondie decided to marry me. My first wife had died, and I was disabled, and if Blondie was going to marry this late in life, she surely could have come up with someone better than me.
Sis had four kids, and three of them had wonderful husbands or wives, with great houses in upscale neighborhoods. The fourth, the youngest, had jettisoned her husband, but she had always been sort of a flibber-de-gibbet, and it appeared that she was about to marry a well-off guy. Brother had two kids, and not only had he married into a high-prestige family, but his son had already married well, and his daughter was engaged.
Things didn't go well with her family. I didn't want a big wedding, nor did Blondie, but when Sis insisted, Blondie agreed that we'd marry in Sis's church.
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